The loss of a loved one is a difficult time in everyone's life, in which spirituality plays an important role. When offering condolences to someone close, it is therefore important to respect their beliefs and customs.
In Islam, there are specific phrases to offer condolences. Here are several examples to help you find the right words.
Arabic (transcription) | Arabic | English |
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Allah y rahmo (for a man) Аllаh y rаhmа (for a woman) | الله يْرَحْمو | May Allah have mercy on him |
Allah i sabbarkoum | الله إ صبركم | May Allah grant you patience and strength in the face of the ordeal of death |
Inna lillah wa inna ilayhi raaji'uun | إِنَّا لِلَّٰهِ وَإِنَّا إِلَيْهِ رَاجِعُونَ | We belong to Allah and to Him we shall return |
Aezam allh ajraka, wa'ahsan eaza'aka, waghafar limayitk | أعْظَمَ اللهُ أجْرَكَ، وَأَحْسَنَ عَزَاءَكَ، وَغَفَرَ لِمَيِّتكَ | May Allah magnify your reward, grant you better consolation, and forgive your deceased. |
Albaqiat fi hayatik | .البقية في حياتك | May you have a long life ahead after this loss |
In the Islamic religion, mourning lasts for 3 days. During these 3 days, prayers are recited to accompany the deceased, and it is also during this period that the family receives condolences from relatives and friends of the deceased.
Of course, you can offer your condolences directly to the family, in person if you have the opportunity, but you can also send your condolences via text message or WhatsApp if the family is far away and you cannot travel.
Also, note that sending flowers is not recommended for Muslim mourning, as it is considered superfluous.