Condolence messages: some examples

When a death occurs, it is appropriate to send a condolence message to the immediate family of the deceased. It shows attention and provides comfort in a very difficult time to overcome. Here are several examples to help you find the right tone.

Our advice for writing condolences

Condolence messages allow one to express support for someone who has just lost a loved one. The recipient can be a family member, a friend, a colleague, or a relative of the deceased who you did not know. In this case, it is appropriate to specify your relationship with the deceased person ("colleague of...", "friend of...").

The choice of words is very important; some terms should be avoided, such as "death" or "deceased."

You should also adapt your speech to the circumstances of the death. The tone should be adjusted depending on whether the death is natural or accidental.

Lastly, don't hesitate to leave your contact information in case the recipient would like to respond to thank you.

A few examples of condolence messages

Formal messages

Suitable for sending, for example, to colleagues you are not very close to or to the deceased's family, whom you do not know personally.

• We share your grief at this time of mourning and assure you of our most affectionate feelings.
• Our most sincere condolences for your loss.
• Please accept our deepest sympathy.
• [Name] was more than a colleague to me. Our relationship went beyond professional, for I have lost a friend.
• We cannot be by your side on this sad day, but our thoughts are with you during this terrible ordeal.
• Please receive our most tender thoughts in this trial. Circumstances have made it so I could not attend the funeral.
• My thoughts for [name] were present that day.
• We are close to you in your great sorrow.
• Life is fleeting, but the memory of a loved one remains. We wish you much courage and are wholeheartedly by your side.

Condolence messages for a close one

Used more when the recipient is someone close to us: a friend, sister, brother, grandparent, etc.

• We wanted to tell you that we are wholeheartedly with you during this ordeal.
• I cannot tell you if one ever recovers from the death of a loved one, but I can certainly send you all my support during this ordeal.
• I will always remember their kindness and goodness.
• I learned of this terrible news in shock.
• [Name] was part of the family. I lost a brother/sister on [date of death].
• Our sincere condolences to you and your family.
• We were very moved to learn of the disappearance of [name].
• An angel left us too soon.
• I cannot imagine the pain this loss must cause.
• We will miss [name] eternally.
• I will forever cherish the memories spent with them and their eternal good humor.
• The long illness of [name] was a real challenge, and they fought to the end.
• I am sure they are watching over you from where they are.
• I am available if you need any help.
• Do not hesitate to call on me if you need to talk.
• I will keep excellent memories of [name].

In conclusion, do not hesitate to mention the deceased's personality traits or personal memories you had shared, which will bring comfort to the recipient.